Okay so what i really ment to post but then couldn't think of when i went to write a new one th first time is that Pat, the first one - from school, might be moving to the balitmore area when he gets back from denmark. He has an un official job offer at hopkins and two or three interviews there for other jobs. at the very least he is coming to visit when he gets back to the states. I spent most of today thinking about what it might mean if he actually moved to the area. I still don't know if i fell for him because the circumstances at the time made it so that things wouldn't work anyway, or if it really would have worked out if we both weren't going in seporate directions. (i hope that last sentance made sense)